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synnet2025-03-10 02:40 pm
queenofkur) wrote in synnet2025-03-10 02:40 pm
[text] @goddess of death
[ Following this exchange, the goddess posts this on the network: ]
Greetings everyone (edit: except Silco).
I come to ask for your shared wisdom following a disagreement I have had with one of our peers, Bakugō Katsuki. I am of the opinion that his unusual vocabulary, his aggressive predisposition and his unstable temper are a detriment to his social life. I have personally experienced difficulties communicating properly with him, seeing how all conversations quickly devolve into a purposeless rain of insulting words before any progress can be made.
When I said as much, he suggested the problem comes from myself. He accuses me of taking his words too literally and of behaving in too much of a maternal manner towards him. I admit it is a possibility we simply don't see eye to eye - however, I doubt his temper, poor choice of words and aggressiveness are limited to our interactions.
This is why I am asking for your wisdom and opinion, especially those familiar with Bakugo to - hopefully - help him see reason.
Thank you kindly!
-- Ereshkigal, Goddess of Death and Queen of Kûr
Greetings everyone (edit: except Silco).
I come to ask for your shared wisdom following a disagreement I have had with one of our peers, Bakugō Katsuki. I am of the opinion that his unusual vocabulary, his aggressive predisposition and his unstable temper are a detriment to his social life. I have personally experienced difficulties communicating properly with him, seeing how all conversations quickly devolve into a purposeless rain of insulting words before any progress can be made.
When I said as much, he suggested the problem comes from myself. He accuses me of taking his words too literally and of behaving in too much of a maternal manner towards him. I admit it is a possibility we simply don't see eye to eye - however, I doubt his temper, poor choice of words and aggressiveness are limited to our interactions.
This is why I am asking for your wisdom and opinion, especially those familiar with Bakugo to - hopefully - help him see reason.
Thank you kindly!
-- Ereshkigal, Goddess of Death and Queen of Kûr
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Lady Ereshkigal. Your heart is in the right place, and I do believe that counts for something. I consider myself a friend of Bakugo's, and I do appreciate when people try to help him. It's just. [WELL....]
It looks like both of you got rather embarrassed in this process. I think...Bakugo is "all bark and little bite" as it were with us Outsiders. He cares about others, but can only express it with a prickly exterior. It's...just how people are sometimes. I don't particularly have a problem with it. But it makes sense that it would be upsetting to others.
I understand this isn't particularly helpful after the fact. I just...wanted to say my piece I guess. Are you alright?
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thank you for your kind words
i am not in a particularly good enough state to reply right now
i realize i was wrong and i agree with your assessment about bakugo
but he needs the kindness and help more than i right now
you should contact him and give him such kind words
thank you again